WOMAN EXPLAINED WHY SHE STOPPED INVITING HER DAUGHTER-IN-LAW TO THE GIRL TRIPS OF THE FAMILY
A mother-in-law had stopped including her daughter-in-law to the family activities, after she started to hold them down, as she wanted to rest a lot during their trips, as she caused them to lost a lot of time.
The mother-in-law explained the issue with her daughter-in-law on the Reddit’s r/AITA subreddit, as she said that her bride is obese. She described the problem as, “She is obese, her ankles are swollen from her weight. The connection between her weight and not walking far without a break is very obvious.”
She stated that whenever they go out, for instance, they go to a shopping mall, they wait for a long time after few minutes of walking, for her daughter-in-law to recover.
The mother-in-law stated that she has three daughters, and they like having girl trips. Her son is married with her daughter-in-law Beth, and she explained that her DIL was in normal weight, and after she gave birth, she lost control of her weight. She explained, “It’s bad enough that she needs constant breaks walking.”
The woman stated that she used to love her, but not anymore, since she is breaking their trips. She explained, “Everywhere we go with her it is constant complaining that she is tired.” OP added that the last time they went to a mall, they spend half of the day waiting for her daughter-in-law to recover her strength on the bench.
And the last time, she didn’t invited Beth to a trip, where she explained that they went to a farm for pumpkin patch, and picked apples. They had enjoyed their time, and shared some pictures from the occasion, which Beth saw and called her to ask that why she wasn’t invited. The mother had said that it was a family trip. Beth called her a liar.
As the mother in law had enough of it, she called it and told her the truth. She explained that she got sick of it when she forced them to stop and wait for her to recover, that she was uninvited because of her weight.
And now her son is calling her to inform her that she should apologize from his wife, or they will cut their ties with them. She stated that her daughters are on her side, but she is unsure of what to do.
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