HER SISTER-IN-LAW WAS LEAVING HER WALLET AT HOME, SO THAT SHE WOULTN’T PAY, AND THE WIFE HAD TOOK THE WALLET WITH HER TO CONFRONT HER

A woman had shared on Reddit that her sister-in-law was leaving her wallet on the house, as she didn’t wanted to pay the bill, then she took her sister-in-law’s wallet with her to confront her. She then asked for advice from the Redditors.
The woman had stated that her sister-in-law is living on a different city, and when she visits them, she is staying in on their house, as she can book a hotel room, and likes to go to fancy restaurants. “My (f28) SIL “Amy” (f26) always comes to visit from out of town. She stays with us instead of a hotel, and always wants to go to expensive restaurants. She always conveniently forgets her wallet, or domes up with some excuses as to why she can’t pay her share.”
Then her SIL had stated that she should pay, since the woman was making more money than her. “She has implied that since I make much more money than her, I should be the one to pay (no, not my husband should pay, but me specifically). I do make a fair amount of money, but not so much that I can treat someone every time they come into town. Nonetheless, in the past, I have just paid the bill and asked her to pay me back. She never has.”
As she made a reservation on a fancy restaurant again, she had took the wallet of her sister-in-law. “She had made a reservation at an extremely expensive restaurant last night, and before we left, I made it clear that I wouldn’t be paying her bill. This is where I might be the asshole, and I’ll admit I got this move straight from and episode of Two and a Half men. As we were leaving, her and my husband went to the car. I pretended I forgot something and went back inside. I found her wallet sitting right on top of her suitcase. I put it in my purse and we went to the restaurant.”
As the bill came to the table, she had stated that she forgot her wallet, and then the OP, showed her wallet, “When we were done eating, I asked for separate bills. She said no, we need one bill, because she “forgot” her wallet again. I reached in my purse and said, “this wallet?” She was extremely furious. She said that I should not have touched or grabbed her wallet. So AITA for taking her wallet and bringing it to the restaurant?”
Here are some of the comments of Redditors.
“NTA but you totally should have flipped the switch- left your wallet at home- only brought your licence so she had to cover the whole bill then never taken her out to a restaurant again”
“STOP going out to eat with her. Just stop. What’s wrong with your husband that he allows his sister to take advantage of his wife? This is your real problem. NTA”
“Right? O was wondering why her husband hasn’t put a stop to it yet. It’s so disrespectful to be passive aggressive about her income and try to manipulate OP into covering her bill. Is the husband just socially unaware or is he just glad that he’s not the target of SIL’s toxicity? Either way he needs to grow a backbone”
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