HER DAUGHTER HAD CHOSE HER RICH FATHER OVER HER MOTHER, AFTER HER FATHER HAD KICKED HER OUT, SHE WANTED TO LIVE WITH HER MOTHER

A mother had shared her story on Reddit that her daughter had chose to live with her rich father, after she had divorced from her husband. Then her father had kicked her out, and her daughter wanted to move in with her mother.
Her daughter had stated that she has no mother, when they had a conversation. She wanted advice from the Redditors regarding her situation.
She had gave some background information as, “I will keep the background short, I divorced my ex-husband when my daughter (Maria) was 10. I got the house but was a SAHM, so I had trouble making ends met. So lots of budgeting after I got a job in my field again. My ex didn’t have this problem and could spoil her.”
She stated that her father had spoiled their daughter. “He spoiled her rotten, and it really affect our relationship. I would tell her I can’t afford to get her a 1000 dollar laptop and it would cause a huge argument about how dad is better. Tried to get her a job, arguement happened. When she was 17 she decided to drop from high school, I told her no. She told me it was her life and she can do what she wants. Another argument and she left to live with dad permanently. I tried to contact her multiple time but she told me I wasn’t her mother anymore and leave her alone.”
Then she set some rules when her father had kicked her out, and her daughter wanted to live with her.
She had stated the rules as,
1.She needs to get her GED.
2.She needs yo be working a job at least 25+ hours a week.
3.She needs to be looking into what her career will be and either go to a trade school or college.
4.She won’t need to pay rent but needs to buy her own stuff, like clothes and personal items.
5.She needs to contribute to the shared areas ( chores, she would refuse to do them as a kid)
6.Finally no partying lifestyle. She needs to focus on getting her life together not going out ever night like she used to do, save it for the weekend.
Then her daughter had stated some mean things towards her, “She called me a crazy jerk and that I am a shit mother. I informed her that she made it clear she has no mother. She stormed out and I am getting texts.”
Here are some advices from the Redditors.
“Those are completely reasonable requests. Beyond reasonable, even. You wouldn’t be out of line to ask for bills or contributions to household expenses. he’s right. It’s her life, and she can live it how she wants. That means she needs to find a way to pay for it. She can’t live off her parents for her whole life. It sounds like she was getting a free ride from Dad, and now that’s gone she’s learning the hard way what actual adulting looks like. The “partying lifestyle” thing is the only one close to being a line, but again – your house your rules. It’s completely fair for you to not want your roommate coming home drunk at 2 am every morning being loud and disruptive. If she wants to go out every night, let her find her own place, or roommates who are into that.”
“Of course anyone can end up choosing a career with hours like you have. But it’s a choice. You could have a regular 9-5 most likely, right? My SIL, an RN, chose like you did…but she gets 3-4 days off each week so it works out nicely for her and she likes it. I doubt OPs daughter will have that same choice.”
“My cousin’s daughter was able to drop out of HS, what a mess. She doesn’t have a GED but of course, is lying about that. She is a smart girl, working as a bank teller, no mistakes but….they found out she lied about graduating HS. She lost the job. THis happened more than once, too easy to check to see if someone has a diploma. Now she is more than 30 and still no GED. I am still hoping now that she has gotten married and had baby in the last few months, that she can still get her life righted. Luckily, the guy she married seems to have his act together.”
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