HER ADOPTIVE PARENTS DIDN’T WANTED TO COME TO HER WEDDING, WHEN SHE SUGGESTED THAT BOT HER BIOLOGICAL AND ADOPTIVE FATHERS WOULD WALK HER DOWN THE AISLE
The OP shared her story on Reddit’s r/AITA subreddit. The woman stated that she is having problems with her adoptive parents, about inviting her biological parents to her wedding. And about the walking down the aisle issue.
She explained that her biological parents gave her to her adoptive parents who are in their fifties. OP said that she always had a great relationship with her adoptive parents, until she met with her biological parents, and learned some truth from them.
Her biological parents stated that they were 14, when they conceived her. They wanted to keep her but they couldn’t so they gave her away. But as they grew, her biological parents tried to contact her, through her adoptive parents, but her adoptive parents refused them to see their daughter.
When OP learned that, she confronted with her adoptive family, and they said that they were afraid that they would lose her to her biological parents, and when she confirmed that her adoptive parents had prevent her to meet with her biological family, she decided to put a distance to them in result.
As time passed, she become closer to them, but their relationship was not the same. When it came to her wedding, she stated that she wanted her biological father to walk her down the aisle, and when her adoptive parents learned that as she wrote, “their worst fear had come to reality,” and she put her biological parents before them. And if she wants her biological father to walk her down the aisle, they will not come to her wedding.
Then she suggested that both her adoptive and biological fathers would walk her down the aisle, they refused again. OP stated that she gave them a couple of days to think and talk again about the matter. Then she started to receive calls and texts from her adoptive family, which they implied that she was wrong, and some others called her names.
The Redditors were on different opinions, as some stated that she is being ungrateful towards the people who raised her, and some other Redditors stated that her adoptive parents are wrong, since they prevented her biological parents to reach out to her.
What do you think? Let us know.
