FATHER HAD KICKED HIS SON OUT OF THE HOUSE THAT BELONGED TO HIM, WHEN HE HAD REFUSED HIM TO ATTEND TO HIS WEDDING, WITH THE REQUEST OF HIS IN-LAWS - Actual news
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FATHER HAD KICKED HIS SON OUT OF THE HOUSE THAT BELONGED TO HIM, WHEN HE HAD REFUSED HIM TO ATTEND TO HIS WEDDING, WITH THE REQUEST OF HIS IN-LAWS

A father had shared his story on Reddit’s r/AITA subreddit. He had stated that his son had uninvited him to his wedding, when his in-laws had stated that they do not share the same opinion, she when he learned that, he had kicked from the house they were living in, since the house was belonged to him.

He had stated that he bought a house, and his son was residing in the house, after he came from the college. “My wife and I bought a four bedroom house in PA that my son lives in. Our son went to College in PA and wanted to stay in the area. So we bought the house as a second home, we live in NJ and commute into Manhattan for work. We figured that he would have a place to live and we could visit every so often and spend some quality time together.”

Then explained that he had paid for everything for the house, and his son only lives in it. “We pay the taxes and services / maintenance on the house, our son pays for his groceries and the house utilities. All was going well for a few years, our son meets a girl and they get serious. We met her and she seems nice enough. The announce their engagement and she moves into the house with our son.”

As they were having a BBQ party, at the house, he thought that they were getting along well, but the truth revealed later. “We hold a little get to know you BBQ at the PA house, my son and daughter are there, as are our sons fiancé and her parents, and sisters. We all seem to be getting along well, my wife, daughter and the fiancé go into the house along with her mother an sisters and my son. A few minutes later my wife and daughter come out and are really upset. The come over and tell me we’re leaving and driving back to NJ.”

As they went back to their house, he found out from his wife that his son had uninvited them to his wedding. “I try to find out what happened. Once we get back to NJ and they calmed down they tell me that our son and his fiancé along with her family don’t want us at the wedding. According to what I was told “We’re not their kind of people”. I was livid, I called my son and asked him WTH this was about. He tells me that her family feel that we are not good enough and will embarrass them at a family wedding and that we are all uninvited from the wedding.”

After a week, he went to his other house, that his son and his in-laws were residing, and kicked them out. “I let a week go by to calm myself down and drive back to the PA house, the new future in-laws are in the house along with the fiancé. It appears that they all moved into the house They ask me why I’m there, I tell them that since we aren’t invited to the wedding, I was coming over to talk to my son. They tell me to leave their house. I lost it, and told them that they had 30 days to get out. Tell my son I’m selling the house and he could find somewhere else to live with all of you. I go to a realtor in town and list the house for sale.”

Then his son had contacted him and they got into an argument. “They call my son at work and tell him what I said. Apparently they thought that he owned the house. He calls me and asks why I’m selling his house, I tell him I paid for it along with the taxes on it and it is mine. He was living there rent free, but since he doesn’t want us in his new life, he has to get out. I tell him the same as I told his future in-laws they have 30 days to get out then I’ll get a lawyer and get them evicted.”

Here are some of the comments from Redditors.

“NTA. And I want an update on this because it sounds nuts. What kind of people do they think you are? How was your son ok with excluding his whole family? Do you think your son’s been brainwashed by his fiancée? How did he think the house was “his” when he didn’t pay the taxes on it?”

“Thought the last part said “now they are all pulling out” which honestly, son better be doing too before he gets burdened with 18years with this woman and her family…run kid run! Also, Dad, NTA. But you need to sit down seriously with your son because he’s not thinking clearly. Or have your wife or daughter really try to find out where his head is.”

“Son is all fur coat and no knickers. The in laws have a cheek saying OP’s family aren’t good enough to attend the wedding when they were clearly expecting to live rent free in OP’s house. NTA.”

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