FATHER DIDN’T PAID FOR THE WEDDING OF HIS SON, WHEN HE FOUND OUT THAT HE IS GOING TO WALK WITH HIS STEP-FATHER

A man had shared his story, that he didn’t paid for the wedding of his son, when he found out that he was going to walk down the aisle with his biological father and step-father. Before learning that, he was going to pay for the wedding.

The man had stated that he loves his son, and loved even he was away with the army. After his retirement from the army, he tried to spend as much time he can spend with his son. “I was still serving in the army when my oldest son ” Karter” 23M was 5 – 10. Me and his mom were divorced by then but , I always made every effort to be a good dad and spend time with him while on leave. When i left the Army ive spent every moment i could with my boy. We still have a good relationship.”

After his divorce with his ex-wife, she had married with another man, he mentioned that he was a good man. “Now my ex remarried pretty quick to a nice guy “Steven” which of course he did treat Karter well and I’m not knocking that even though we don’t get along but, I’m his actual dad.”

As he is the only financially stable man around his son, his son had asked for him to pay for the wedding. As he stated that he would do anything for his son. “Karter’s getting married to his fiance “Clark” 25M at the end of next month. My ex and Steven are a kinda strapped for cash and Clark’s family isn’t exactly wealthy so they asked me if I’d foot the bill. I agreed cause of course I’d do anything for my boy.”

Then things changed, when he learnt that step-father of his son, was going to join them on his sons walk down the aisle. “Come to find out yesterday that Karter wants both me and Steven to walk him down the aisle. That honestly really pissed me off you know cause I’m Karter’s actual dad and I’m paying for everything and I’ve always been there for him. It hurt alot that he’d want some step parent to walk him down the aisle.”

Then they had a fight, which ended when he stated that he changed his mind, and will not be paying the wedding. “We got into a huge fight about this morning and I told him that I wouldn’t pay for the wedding if Steven walks him down the aisle. My ex is pissed and thanks I’m being selfish but , my dad thinks I should push harder.”

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