DAUGHTER-IN-LAW, HAD EXCLUDED HER MOTHER-IN-LAW FROM THE THANKSGIVING DINNER SHE IS HOSTING
A mother had stated that the wife of her son, had excluded her from the family Thanksgiving dinner. The whole family is invited to the dinner, but mother-in-law. The woman had shared her story on Reddit, and explained her relationship with her daughter-in-law.
She had stated that her daughter-in-law doesn’t like her. She had added that her son had got her pregnant, while they were in college, and she wanted a DNA test, to confirm that her son was indeed the father. “My DIL does not like me, my son got her pregnant in college and I told him to get a paternity test since he was not exclusive with her and she wasn’t either (he told me, she was seeing other people). He did and he is the father. The first time I met her, she told me it was not a pleasure to met the person who thinks she is a whore. (Never called her that) I tried to explain but got cut off by my son.”
She had stated that she only saw her DIL, in family reunions, “Me and him had a conversation and he told me to drop it. Shotgun wedding and one kid later, our relationship is strained. I see her at family events but that really is it. I have been blow off so many times for inviting them out that I don’t anymore. I have accepted that I won’t be a strong presence in their lives or my grandkid.”
When it came to the family Thanksgiving dinner, to her DIL to host, she had a text saying that she wasn’t invited. “Now the family rotates who does holidays. It is her time to host thanksgiving. I gave a text asking what time I should be over and if they want me to bring anything. She told me I wasn’t invited but my husband is. I talked it over with him and we decided to host our own. I informed the other kids what happened and I will have dinner at my place if they want to go.”
After she stated that she will host another Thanksgiving dinner, her other children decided to go to their mother’s dinner. “Well none of the other kids are going now and I am getting texts from her and my son that I am acting like a jerk and to cancel my thanksgiving.”
Then as she had a conversation with her son, he had stated that he didn’t knew that she wasn’t invited, and hosting the dinner, just to piss her off. “I sent a text with screenshots about not being invited to my son, according to him he didn’t know I wasn’t invited and thought I was hosting to piss of his wife. He sent texts that confirm that.”
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