A mother shared her experience with her husband, about the thing that caused by the appearance of her newborn daughter, as her husband thought that she was cheating on her. She shared her story on Reddit’s r/relationship_advice subreddit. She said that the only person in her life is her husband, as her husband’s family is not fond of her, as she explained that they are not getting along well.
She explained that she had a friend from her work, a man who was buying coffee and flowers to her from time to time. But she stated that he was not just getting her coffee, as he was bringing coffee to her other female friend from work. But he was also talking with her about parenting, as he was in his fifties.
When her husband learned that a man from work was talking to his wife, as he was bringing coffee and flowers to her, he was mad, and wanted her to stop being a friends with him. She said this is absurd, and she wouldn’t do what her husband said. This caused a little problem, but forgetten in few days.
As their daughter was born, she was as blonde baby, with colored eyes, despite his father was black, and the mother wasn’t blonde. She stated that her eyes are the same color with her friend from work. So her husband wanted a paternity test, which OP rejected. She explained, “I refused because it was humiliating and because I thought that at least he would educate himself about basic biology but he didn’t, and when I say this I mean that my great grandparents look exactly like my daughter, same color hair, eyes and skin, and he always knew that but decided to ignore it to believe that I was cheating on him.”
Then she said that she should have accepted the test, as her refusal led their relationship to the edge of breaking. She said that when her daughter was born, the little improvements about the relationship of her to the family of her husband was gone too.
As they took the test, and results came back that her husband was the father, she said to him that his family is physically assaulted her, which led to a huge fight between her husband and his family, she stated that they either divorce, or they go to the OP’s country to start over their lives.
She explained, “I asked him is to cut off contact with his family forever because I don’t want our children to suffer what I suffered with them, and he agreed.”
The Redditors accused the woman as being a terrible wife, and they stated that she should have listened to her husband, and stop talking to her co-worker, who was bringing flowers and coffees. And she should accepted the test, as anyone would be suspicious having a fair skinned blonde daughter from a black man.
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