A WOMAN WHO WAS GETTING READY FOR HER WEDDING, FOUND OUT THAT HER FIANCEE HAD CHANGED HER WEDDING DRESS BECAUSE HIS MOTHER WANTED TO CHANGE HER DAUGHTER-IN-LAW’S DRESS

A woman had shared her story, where her fiancee had replaced her wedding dress, when his mother didn’t liked it and wanted to please his mother. The woman had reacted, as she should, when she found out about the situation, and asked what she should do with the situation, on her post on Reddit.

She had shared her story as, “My fiance M33, and I F28 are getting married in december. His mom is the intrusive type but she’s nice overall and we….somewhat get along. I hate to admit that wedding planning has been an absolute nightmare. His mom wasn’t willing to agree on most things, and my fiance said that since he’s her only son then I should respect and appreciate this “vision” she has for the wedding and how it should be.”

She had stated that her MIL wanted to go with them to pick a wedding dress, where the trouble began. “She insisted to come along for wedding dress shopping. I took her with me and my mom and friends. I was so lucky to have found what I was looking for. but she picked a dress that she liked so much and said that “she always pictured her son’s bride in it” mom and friends thought this line was creepy. I thought the dress was somewhat creepy and toooootally not my type. I apologized and thanked her for her “vision” but told her that I’d already decided on a dress that I had “envisioned” myself wearing at my wedding!.”

Her MIL didn’t liked the dress the woman had picked, and probably talked with her son about the issue, which her fiancee did the terrible thing. “She got all pissy because of it apparently, then must’ve told my fiance because, he came home in the evening ranting about how I made his mom upset and “turned down” her help in choosing the wedding dress and excluded her from the process. I asked “what process?” duh it’s just a wedding dress…my wedding dress so I really didn’t get how she should get a say at all!. He got upset and said that this attitude of mine isn’t working on him or his mom. He said that I should consider the dress his mom wanted me to buy especially knowing that “both dresses weren’t that much different anyway” like she said but I told him yes they were different…like so much different.”

She found out that her dress that she had picked was gone, and the one her fiancee’s mother had picked was there. “Anyways, We argued about it then we dropped it. Yesterday I came home and found out that he had returned my wedding dress and replaced it with the one his mom wanted. I called him and he was straightforward about what he did and why he did it. I lost it and started screaming at him. He asked me to calmn down and really give this dress “a chance”. I refused to even listen I screamed at him without giving him a chance to speak.”

They had a fight on their house over the dress, as she shared, “He got home and we had an argument. I then went to stay with one of my friends and he kept calling and calling then texting saying that I overreacted and it’s his wedding too so it wasn’t cool how I screamed at him. He insisted I give this dress a chance. He went on and on about how his mom has a “vision” and good intentions and just wants what best for me as her future daughter inlaw.”

She had stated that her own mother is pissed about the issue and wants to have a conversation with her MIL. Then she asked for advices, as she concluded her post. “Mom is livid and has been wanting to go scream at him and his mom but my dad said that this isn’t worth ruining my relationship with my inlaws. He suggested I wisen up and “go with the flow” but is it too much for me to be able to pick my own wedding dress without being guilted about it just to keep the peace?. AITA for my reaction?”

Here are some of the advices the Redditors had given the troubled woman.

“Hand him the ring back…
Say “I hope you get the wedding you and your mom have always hoped for.”
Walk away.”

“NTA, sane response: call off the wedding – comedy response: take his suit back and exchange it for a clown outfit”

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