A WOMAN SHARED HER STORY OF HOW HER HUSBAND HAD KICKED HER OUT FROM THEIR HOME, CHANGED THE LOCK, AS HE THOUGHT THAT SHE WAS CHEATING, AND HOW SHE SHOWED HIM THAT HE WAS WRONG

On Reddit, a woman told her story of how her husband had kicked her out and changed the locks of the house, as he thought that she was cheating, and how she had acquitted herself. She had stated that she couldn’t believe that her love of five years had thought she was cheating.

She had stated that they are a married couple for 2 weeks, but they have a relationship of five years. When her MIL had an accident, her husband left. “We have been married for 2 weeks. On Monday he got a call from his brother that their father had hit their mother while backing up the driveway and that she broke her hip. She went to surgery and got hip replacement and she was in pain. My husband left immediately to his parents and stayed there until Wednesday morning.”
When he came back, he had stated that their bedroom is smelling a men’s cologne. “They live 4h drive away. when he came home around 8 am on Wednesday, I was on my way out to work. He asked me why it smelled cologne for men in our apartment and especially in our bedroom. I was confused and didn’t know what he meant. I told him that I didn’t know and because I was running late I left for work without further discussion.”

Then she found out that the locks were changed, and she stayed at her mother’s house, where she tried to contact with her husband but he refused to talk and stated that it is over. “When I came back from work he had already changed the locks. I tried to call and text but his phone was off. I called mom and she let me stay with her. I was so worried so I called my brother in law and he told me that my husband was there but that he didn’t want to talk now. Later he [husband] texted me that It was over between us.”
Then she had talked with her husband about the misunderstanding, but he was certain that he was cheated on. “I asked what’s going on and he told me that he knew I had a man with me while he was away. That I was disgusting for cheating on him in OUR bed, when we’re newly married. His mother was angry and she demanded that I gave my wedding band back to them since it cost €18K. My mother in law also told me that they’re going to start annulment process and that they would send my my clothes and the few items I brought with me since everything else was his.”

Then she found out the problem, as she stated, the smell was coming from the scented wipes that she used, “My husband hates fish. Smell, taste and everything but especially the smell. That’s why, whenever my husband isn’t around I usually make fish for me because I love seafood. So on Monday I made pan-fried sea bream (one of my favorite dishes). Our apartment is small and to try and hide the smell I used scented wipes ( the samples you get when buying make up). I have a table fan in our bedroom and it’s been on most of the time because of the heat. I thought it was smart to attach the wipes on the back of the fan. I got used to the smell and therefore didn’t understand what my husband meant when he said it smelled cologne for men.”
After their conversation, and her explanation that the husband had learnt the truth, they went back to their house together. “I told him all this and to make sure he believed me I told him to look in the bathroom trashcan for the packages and on the back of the fan for the wipes. On Friday morning he was at my moms house apologizing and begging me to go back home with him.”

But she doesn’t like the idea that her husband had erased her from his life so easily. “Now I’m home and everything is supposed to be back to normal but I have a very bad taste in my mouth. How could my husband, who I have been together with for 5 years so easily think that I’m capable of doing suck horrible thing to him and to myself. And his reaction! So strong and radical. Just throw me out like a dog and shut me out, only contacting me via text.”
And the terrible treatment she received from his family. “And his family not wasting a moment to bash me to the rest of the family, ruining my reputation. I asked him why he did this and all he could do is apologize and cry and cry and apologize later followed by “I’ve always thought you’re too good to be with someone like me” which is no consolation at all. How little does he think of me?”

Then she concluded her post and wanted some time alone to think from her husband. “I was supposed to visit his mom this weekend because I couldn’t take a leave from work during the week but she can forget that now. I’m going to tell my husband I need to move to my mom for a period of time to think of what has happened. Thereafter I have no idea what to do. I know that the easiest thing to do is to forgive and forget but I don’t know.”
Here are some of the comments of Redditors.
“I’m hurt and angry for you! Reading this made me feel rage! I couldn’t go back. You are a stronger than me. That right there is so immature of your husband. How could he not talk to you before changing the locks. Given you a chance to talk it out first before jumping to conclusions. I’d leave. My trust and my heart would be broke. Sure therapy if you really want to save the marriage. But things will never be the same.”
“He is either extremely insecure or he cheated. He probably did something on his bachelor party. (Oh and could u please update??)”
“Leave him. You saw how nasty he and his family really are. Leave him. He locked you out of your own home. Had he not changed his mind, you’d have nothing. Get rid of him and his family. Fast.”
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