A SON HAD SUPPORTED HIS BRIDE’S DECISION TO KICK HIS MOTHER OUT OF THE WEDDING, WHEN HIS MOTHER HAD A BRIDAL STYLE ON HER HAIR
A man had shared his story on Reddit’s r/AITA subreddit. He had shared that he kicked out his mother from his wedding, when his bride was uncomfortable with the hair of his mother. His bride had stated that the hair of his mother had a bridal style, and it was the same thing as wearing white.
He had supported his wife, and said to his mother that she should leave.
He had started his story as, “I got married recently and it was a great night, but I know it was a lot of stress for my wife leading up to it as she wanted everything to be perfect.”
His bride was uncomfortable with the hairstyle of his mother, as she had a bridal style, which he described as, “The day of she told me she was very upset over my mom’s hair. So my mom had (I suck at describing but I’ll try) her hair half up and half down, and the piece that was in the ponytail had pearls in it, and then some cascading down her hair. She told me she felt it was a bridal hairstyle and that pearls are a traditionally bridal thing. She felt it was inappropriate.”
Then, talked with his mother about the issue, and they had a problem. “To be totally honest I have no idea about this stuff, but took her lead. We confronted my mom and asked her to take it out. She refused and called my wife narcissistic. My wife began to get emotional and I asked what she wanted to do. She said she wanted her to take it out or leave, so I gave my mom that option.”
Then people had accused them as being selfish. “she said it was way too much work to just take it out after an hour and she would rather leave and go somewhere nice with her husband where she could keep it in. She left with her husband muttering about us, and we got a lot of hate from a lot of people calling us assholes and selfish, but my wife strongly feels that it was done on purpose.”
Here are some of the comments from Redditors;
“YTA – bridezilla much? This is ridiculously controlling. Congrats on ruining a relationship over nothing; mom’s assessment of your wife as “narcissistic” is probably correct.”
“This. OP, your new “bride” is behaving like a monster who seems hell-bent on isolating you from your family. You might want to sit back and look at the relationships your bride has ruined because of her own issues. If you’re not careful, it’s just going to end up being you and her, and she’ll turn all that hate onto you.”
“YTA and so is your wife! What a bridezilla! Tell me OP did your mom’s hairstyle look like your wife’s at all because this sounds like a narcissistic power trip on your wife’s part. Why was she so focused on your mom’s hair and not the actual wedding?”
“An elaborate hairstyle for sure, but if she wasn’t wearing white or a bridal style dress, I see 0 reason this would clash with the bride.”
What do you think? Let us know.
