A MAN HAD WANTED HIS FATHER TO CHECK IF HIS FIANCEE IS VIRGIN, AND DEMANDED THAT IN FRONT OF THEIR FAMILY, WOMAN ASKED FOR ADVICE
A woman had stated that her fiancee had demanded that his father is going to check her hymen before their marriage, in front of family members, as she stated she wanted some advice from the people on Reddit.
She had shared her story as, “My fiance proposed to me about 8 months ago. We decided on having a relatively small wedding which is in two days. Everything was going great. He seems absolutely perfect and we are very much in love.”
Then adressed that she is a virgin, and her fiancee too. But things turned upside down when he offered something disgusting. “I am a virgin and so is he, he wanted to save it for marriage and I wasn’t fussed so I agreed to saving it. He has told me earlier that in his family the father checks the virginity of the bride the night before the wedding. I laughed this off as it seriously sounds like a massive joke. No turns out he was dead serious. He wants me, the night before to open my legs up in a small ceremony type thing so his dad can check me while him, his brothers and uncle can watch so that they know I am still ‘pure’.”
She had rejected the occasion, and stated how embarrasing that was, which made her fiancee cry. “I told him fat chance I am going to do that and he was begging to me to go through with it and how important it is for him. He said he knew it was slightly embarrassing for me but his mom did and it will prove how much I love him and that I have nothing to hide anyway as I am still a virgin. I left and he was crying, it was very dramatic tbh.”
She stated that she wanted to cancel the wedding, but she is thinking that they are perfect together. “I want to call off the whole wedding because of this and never talk to him again. But at the same time its only one thing and other then that we are genuinely perfect for each other and I dont want to spend my life with anyone else and it is very important to him and his family.”
She wanted advice from the people on the internet and concluded her post as, “What the frick frack do I do. I am currently at my friends house and I might stay here for the night. tomorrow would be our last day as an unmarried couple and I am straight up panicking.”
Here are some of the advices given to the troubled woman.
“You may not have an intact hymen. Most females don’t. This proves NOTHING!!!! Plus it’s disgusting to even think about your soon to be in laws looking at your twat.”
“Some traditions are beautiful and fun. Some traditions are demeaning and disgusting. This is a tradition that needs to die. I can’t imagine being a father and wanting to look at my son’s wife’s private parts. I can’t imagine wanting my father to look at my wife’s private parts. What the fuck are they thinking?”
“I’m so angry at this it’s literally like “hey can my dad molest you real quick just to check your ‘purity'” So f***ing insulting towards you and gross. Take care OP”
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