A 52-YEAR-OLD MAN FOUND OUT THAT 4 OF HIS 5 CHILREN ARE NOT FROM HIM, AS HIS WIFE STATED THAT SHE DIDN’T HAD AN AFFAIR

52-year-old man had shared his story on Reddit, and asked for advice.
He had stated that he found out 4 of his 5 children are not from him, as his wife had said that she didn’t had cheated on her husband.

The man had stated, “I met my wife when we were in highschool and we married in college. We have 5 beautiful children together – really, I consider them a total blessing regardless of what I’m about to bring up – and up until a couple of weeks ago I thought that we had the perfect marriage. We were typical highschool sweet hearts, we go out together, we never fight, I feel like I’ve done everything a loving husband should do.”
“I am saying this not to make myself out as the perfect husband, for example my work has always meant I work long hours and maybe haven’t always been there when she needed me, but I want to stress that I’ve never felt our marriage was in any trouble. And never in a million years would I ever have suspected my wife of being disloyal – she’s always done everything she could to support me and take care of our children.” he continued.
Then he had learnt from his daughter that she is not from him, as she said to her father in secrecy. “Now, my eldest daughter recently had an ancestry test done. And the results of the ancestry test strongly suggested I was not her father. She confided this to me privately, showing me the results and I could tell she was visibly upset by this. Of course, the first thing I did was reassure her that no matter what, she’s my daughter and I’ll always love her unconditionally. But secondly, the two of us decided to get an official paternity test since the ancestry tests are not completely reliable. It comes back and I am indeed not her biological father.”

He couldn’t held his tears back, as he stated, “This news really broke me. I’m ashamed to say I broke down in tears in front of my daughter. The combination of finding out about my wife’s infidelity and how upset I was making my daughter by how I was reacting. I really wish I had kept it in for her sake, but I didn’t.”
Then he asked to talk with his other children, except his youngest one, who was still in school. “Following this I asked my other children, except my youngest, to come and see me. I wanted to know the extent of my wife’s infidelity – if it was a one off, I could maybe work past it, especially given how long ago it would be. However I didn’t want to tell my youngest as she is still in school, a teenager, and really I didn’t think it was appropriate to tell her yet.”
“So we have paternity tests for each of the three done. Not only are none of them my biological children, together four of my children have three different fathers. Which somehow made it worse. It’s like, she wasn’t just having an ongoing affair, she was having multiple? I can’t explain how this make it worse, but it just does.” he had found out that four of his children were from another people.

“So I confront my wife with this, expecting her to confess and beg for forgiveness. She doesn’t confess. She doesn’t even take it seriously. She says the tests must be flawed. All four? How the hell am I supposed to take that seriously?” the troubled man had talked with his wife.
“I keep bringing it up and she keeps brushing it off, getting progressively more annoyed at me. When I bring it up she will try and guilt trip me. “We’ve been together since highschool, do you seriously not trust me?” etc. But how am I supposed to trust her in the face of such overwhelming evidence?”
Here are some of the advices given to the troubled man.

“have a 14 year old daughter and believe me they know when something is up. She will be extremely upset that she was the only one left out if you don’t tell her. So sorry you are going through this but so I have so much respect for you for never leaving those kids. You are their father no matter what.”
“You have already spoken to your older kids assured them that you will continue to be their father. Follow through with action.
Your younger daughter is 14. She would understand the concept of a DNA test. Besides, your older kids would support you. Your wife can say whatever she wants, she cannot keep her lies wrapped up.
No, you should not spend anytime with your wife. You need to lawyer up and divorce her. It might hurt now, but you will feel better down the road either alone or with a new partner. At least you do not have to live a lie with this woman anymore.”

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