HER FIANCE LEFT HER AT THE ALTAR, AND LATER SHE LEARNT THE REASON WHY HE LEFT

A story on the Reddit’s, r/Advice subreddit got a lot of attention, as a woman had shared her story of how her fiance had left her at the altar, and then he contacted with her, and explained the reason why he left her. She later found out the shocking truth, and shared with the Reddit.
She had stated that, on their wedding day, she couldn’t reach to her fiance. Then the whole family of her fiance, and friends, had tried to comfort her, as they had tried to reach to him too. “Yesterday was suppose to be one of the most happiest days of my life and it turned out to be the worst. My fiancé never showed up to the ceremony leaving me at the altar. His friends and family tried to get a hold of him but all calls went straight to voice-mail.”
She had stopped her efforts to reach him, and informed the guests that there will be no wedding, and they are free to use the open bar, and the food. “After waiting an hour for him I told my guests that there wasn’t going to be a wedding. I opened the reception hall and told them to enjoy the food and open bar, even if there was no ceremony, I still wanted them to have a good time and enjoy the food and drinks.”
The mother of her fiance had came to talk with her, and apologized, and she had stated how frustrated she was against her son. “I didn’t cry, I wasn’t going to cry. At least not in front of everyone. His mother came to me and apologized through tears, she told me how disappointed she was in him and that she was so sorry. I just shook my head and stuck with her the entire time. I didn’t want her to cry and feel bad for something that wasn’t her fault.”
She had thanked to her friends, as they had tried to entertain people, by letting her some time to think what to do. “The real MVPs were all my friends. They did their absolute best to keep things from being awkward and entertained everyone. They played music, danced and one of them went as far as going back home to bring a projector and a game system for all the kids and teens to play against each other with. I was glad that the day was somewhat saved but I still felt horrible. My would-be BIL Ethan kept me from getting shit faced when I really wanted to, told me that it would be awkward if I did so I did my best to keep everyone happy.”
As she went back to her hotel, on the morning, she saw some missed calls, and text from her fiance. “So now I’m back at the hotel we got and I’m alone. This morning I got a couple of missed calls from my fiancé and several messages that I haven’t opened yet. I’m so angry at him, he humiliated me yesterday by not showing up when he could’ve told me he was getting cold feet.”
Through her friends, she had send him a message that she doesn’t even want to see him or hear him. “I had my friend message him that I want to be left alone and that if he showed up to the hotel room I was going to call my brothers to have him removed. So far he hasn’t shown up but I am getting phone calls from his friends probably all wanting me to speak to him. I don’t know if it’s me being shallow or not but now I’m rethinking our entire relationship and whether or not I see a future with him.”
Then she had released an update on the story, about the reason why her fiance had left her. “And finally I read my ex-fiance’s messages. Yes, he’s alive, he wasn’t in any terrible accident and the reason he never showed up was because he found out he has a kid. His childhood sweet heart came by with a kid maybe a couple of weeks ago. His best man knew and never told me because my ex didn’t want him to tell me until he was 100% percent sure and I guess he found out today.”
She had concluded as, “He apologized so many times for not showing up but he couldn’t because he felt so guilty of what? I don’t know. He said a large part of him wants to make things right and take care of his son because he’s always wanted a family. So screw the last 3 years right? I don’t know if that means he’s going to go back to his ex because he wants to talk over the phone. Honestly, I’m done.”
Here are some comments from the Redditors.
“I would invite your mom or a sibling of yours. Someone you can vent to. Even a grandparent.”
“Running away from a wedding is a nail in the coffin, this is an instant break up.”
“There is nothing to rethink. He left you standing alone in front of all of your loved ones. Any ‘boy’ (and I use that term purposely) that does that, does NOT deserve another chance.”
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