A MAN HAD FOUND OUT THAT HIS PARTNER WAS A CHEATER, THEN HE HAD TALKED WITH THE WIFE OF HER BOSS

A man had shared his story on Reddit’s r/survivinginfidelity subreddit. The man had stated that his girlfriend had tricked her, as she made him believe that she was carrying his child. After the birth, the man had found out that he was not the father, and his partner was a cheating woman.

The man had stated that he was on the subreddit, since he was suspicious about his partner, as he shared, “I’ve been on Reddit a while and began lurking this sub when I first suspected my gf was cheating. I had hoped I wouldn’t be here posting but here we are. I (28m) have been with my gf (25f) for just about 2 years.”

As time passed, she had stated that she was pregnant, even though they had used protection. “The relationship was good and then she tells me she’s pregnant. For the most part, I’m careful and she said she was on birth control. I was skeptical but went to an appointment. I then figured it was just one of those things. I always wanted a family so even though this was not how I wanted to begin, I was overjoyed”

Then he added that things between them were good at that point. “We’re past the first trimester and I have her move in at her insistence. (Insert red flag I missed) Were planning what we will do work-wise and how to set up the baby’s room. She is pretty insistent she will go back to work but be able to stay home. She swears she can make it work. I go to every appointment with her. Things are still good.”

At their next appointment with the doctor, she wanted to talk alone with the doctor firstly. “We’re in the third trimester and I make my schedule work to still go to every appointment. Up until this point, I had been at each appointment in it’s entirety. This one appointment, she’s asks me to wait so she can talk to the doctor first. I’m super concerned that something is wrong with the baby and she didn’t want me to hear. I go in and the check up is done. Everything looks good. My gf brushes off my concern over why I couldn’t be there for all of it. (Another red flag)”

Then she started to have secret phone calls, and text, as she explained that they were related to her work, and are confidential. “We’re about a month and a half from the due date and I notice her being kind of secretive with phone calls and texts. She tells me it’s work and it’s confidential etc. My antenna is now up so I try to get looks at her phone. She’s got Snapchat and kik. I find it strange but don’t confront her.”

As the baby was born, she was so persuasive that her boyfriend about the birth certificate, “The baby is born and I’m overwhelmed with emotion. The child is perfect and things went fine. Then comes the part where they want me to go on the birth certificate. My gf becomes really insistent about it. She’s constantly asking me to do it and seems way more anxious I’ve ever seen her. Here’s the red flag I didn’t miss. I don’t do it. We have an argument but she stops pushing. I think it’s because she knows how suspect it looks already.”

Then he had checked her phone, and found out the truth. “We’re home and she has to go tend to the baby after it woke up. I notice she set her phone down to go to the baby. I couldn’t help it and looked. It was still unlocked. I start looking for texts or calls. I then find a whole conversation on kik with a guy. All the updates of her appointments. Pictures of her and the baby. Then I see it. The place she says she thinks it’s his child.”

She had revealed that he was not the father. “I confront her and she apologizes. She admits the baby could be mine or someone else but she thinks it’s mine. I demand a paternity test and leave.”

He concluded as, “It’s been about a week since the confrontation. The results came in yesterday and the baby isn’t mine. She’s gone to live with her mother. Here’s the best part. It took me a lot of digging seeing as all I had were usernames she talked to him to. The father is her boss. The secrecy was for him. The boss with a wife and 4 kids in middle and high school. I found the wife on Facebook and sent her all I had including texts from my gf saying it’s his.”

Here are some of the comments of the Redditors.

“Damn. I’m sorry. Dodged a huge bullet. That poor wife of the AP. Glad you told her. At least you are not tied to her like the AP’s wife is tied to him. Literally no contact with your ex. She is trash of the highest order.”

“To be honest if my husband asked for a dna test of our daughter I’ll be super offended and angry, but if it is mandatory that takes that “why ? You don’t trust me?” Off the table and “it is just how things are done”. The test can also include genetic markers for several diseases so you can orient your child towards their healthiest possible life.”

“If he didn’t sign the birth certificate, he’s fine. If he signed the birth certificate and then questioned paternity, it’s possible the state could force you to support the child because you agreed to by signing. States would never mandate paternity at birth, because all the children born not matching the father’s DNA would then become the state’s responsibility to support.”

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